Hi..I know my son who is 16 now uses  his lunch money etc for weed..like you I am not happy about it, but it could be worse. I am very open about it now with him..hard to get a job with you are stoned etc etc . He’s is still doing well at school..goes to school, and is a nice kid . I just keep working on him with subtle digs ..but am not making everything about the weed . Because he is more than that .,, Hope this helps!  ... View more

Well, its not what Id like to see him do! but after 18 months  of sneaking around his bedroom and getting cross, figured that he will do it anyway, and the decision will have to be his .its a tricky thing, as don't want our communication to always be about it. I truly think its a phase for this age group, and the main thing is to make sure it doesnt lead onto harder drugs. We talk openly about it. and knows we are disappointed that he chooses to do this. but we are NOT disappointed with him, and love all his other strengths etc .my other 2 older sons have aspergers and autism ..so bit of a full house with  special needs!!!   ... View more

I’m with you . I can’t stop him . So have decided to stop trying . All the talking in the universe seems to have no effect . Have just said to him when you are ready to stop and get on with your life let me know. He’s a nice kid, and I’m sure it’s a phase due to boredom . He is now 16 , and is still obsessed..with this and Fortnite . But in a way feel it is better than alcohol..He has ambition , and I say you won’t get a job turning up high etc . And there will be no driving lessons etc if you are still smoking . So we are very open about it now . Does ok at school . Hang in there , and just keep communication open .dont make everything about the weed 😊 ... View more

Hi mamamico  We are having the same issue as you are .. breaking my heart . So young to be obsessed with weed .  ‘Just don’t know the approach, how far to intervene . Is it a phase ?  ... View more