Hi Madmacca, just wondering what the situation is like these days, 2 years after you posted this. my situation is very similar, only that my son has been lying constantly and brought his much younger girlfriend over against my wishes multiple times. As she has mental health issues and they take drugs together, she has caused a lot of property damage at my house as well as injured him significantly. I had to take out a DVO against him which he doesn't take seriously. I am not allowed to even look at him. I love him more than anything but can't get through to him. He doesn't work or study. it's heartbreaking. nothing helps ... View more