I literally can not stand my soon to be step son, I wish I didn't feel this way. I try to like him but I  just can't do it. I need to try and figure out ways to not feel so annoyed when he is around. I know this is going to sound horrible but I feel he is a lazy freeloader. He is 17 and now he lives with me, my 2 girls,  and his dad. He goes to his moms every other weekend and I can't wait but at the same time my kids go to their dads the same weekend so then I feel  crappy because I can't wait for that weekend just so he won't be around. My boyfriend  got custody of him and I dreaded it as soon as he  told me because I just knew it would be this way. It is so tense when he is around and my boyfriend and I fight about him all the time and it has really put a strain on our relationship. I try and talk to my boyfriend how I feel and it gets no where. He always makes excuses for him or says I'm working on it but I don't see a lot of that.  I feel my stepson is lazy, comes home from school , Walks right by the trash if its overflowing when that's his job to take out Goes straight to his room and locks the door to go to sleep or play video games. He only comes out to ask when dinner is, eats and goes straight back to room . When you ask him to do anything its an issue for him. leaves trash all over the house. Has no respect for other peoples things . He has a HUGE problem with lying about everything. We bought him a truck and he wrecked it after one month. Told his dad he would get a job and pay him back for the 300 ticket and the 400.00 tow expenses but hasn't even made an effort to get a job. Eats everything in the house snacks and all for my girls lunch stuff, He can have them as well but he has no consideration and eats it all. I have hidden stuff from him and I don't like doing that because it makes me look greedy and then my girls get mad because they see me hiding stuff and gets mad at him and says hes a pig , which he is but it doesn't help the situation. He asks like a baby to his dad and bull@%$^& him all the time and I see it which irritates me more. HELP I actaully considered breaking up with my boyfriend because his son makes me miserable .  ... View more