I can't stand my step son, he is four years old and he just gets on my nerves constantly. I'm with him the majority of the day when I'm not at work, on my days off I'm with him all day, I have my own son three years old, and I hate the way my step son is rubbing off on my son, just so many things I'm struggling to deal with and overcome with this kid, he has so many flaws in my eyes and I don't know how to get over them, his birth mother is in jail and has pretty much given up custody of him, he sees me as his mother, but knows I'm not his birth mother, and I just can't see him as my own son, just some kid I have to take care of everyday. When we go to visit my husband's sister he turns into a baby, and that's because she treats him like one, I hate his attitude when we go anywhere, I feel terrible for feeling this way, but it's just getting worse, and I don't know how to get over it ... View more