Wow your kids all sound so suggestible. I possibly just forget that they were back then. I would never suggest anything because they would just go I don't want to do that! Content here often seems to be from those who are finding it considerably easier than others and it is actually quite depressing. Social media concerns are a classic example. The suggestion that you have to know and monitor what your child is doing on social media is great but which child who is operating on the internet in a fashion that they know their parents are not going to like or who's friends are acting in this way would ever let you into their social media world! Its a great theory but lets be honest if they were letting you into their social media world you probably don't need to be monitoring it. They are already the sort of child who would come forward with something they are not comfortable about. ... View more