My son, about to start uni but will be living at home, doesn’t seem to want to make friends.  He has been to a couple of freshers events, didn’t enjoy them and came home early.  The first event, he wouldn’t even get out of the car so had to bring him home.  He is a very privileged young man in that he has been privately educated, just finished 5 years of boarding school where he has refused to maintain contact with anyone from there.  No friends from primary school where he was there for 13 years.   He is very sociable with his family, very talented, he plays the piano, is extremely good at drama, has a great sense of humour and is a handsome young man.   I’m very concerned that on the brink of this exciting new chapter in his life, he is sullen and I’m worried that he will struggle socially as he gets older. He has just started a part time job in hospitality to earn money for uni.   Any help you can offer me would be so appreciated. Thank you for “listening “ penny ... View more