My daughter is 18 and writing her final exams. She has not seen her father for years and they have no relationship, although we have kept in touch with the rest of his family. He has been living in a facility where he received help since he has had to job and had issues with substance abuse. His family is not going to have a funeral. She is a high achiever, she is very focussed on getting very high marks and very sensitive. I don't know if I should tell her now or wait for the end of her exams - her exams are starting on Monday and only finishing in December. I know she will be upset about not telling her, but that is fine, I just don't know the impact the news on her will have. I also need to tell my son, but I will have to tell them together.   ... View more