Hi - my eldest lies and steals, which is so against the values I raised her with. She steals make up from me, and denies it. She takes clothes from her younger sister by just going into her room and helping herself. Our little family has gone from what I thought was a healthy relationship to one where there is a lack of trust. I feel like I don’t recognise her, she dropped out of college and doesn’t have a job, but she manages to have false eyelashes and expensive shampoos which I suspect she has shoplifted. She is 17 and is such a kind soul, but at the moment all she does is meet her friends, smoke weed and sometimes MDMA. Her lying these days is automatic and I’m at a loss. You are not alone in this x ... View more