Hi, I have just now found this forum. I have a 16.5yr old daughter that has a provisional diagnosis of BPD, there is a strong family history of mental health issues. I have been struggling with my daughter for over 12 months now to the point that she drains me so much I don’t want to talk to her or be around her. Her anger and vindictiveness is so difficult to live with it makes me nauseous with fear and anxiety. She has been seeing an OT (mental health) at cymhs for months now and we have had no significant progress. A few weeks ago I had to push for her to see the psychiatrist consultant because her clinician is not trained in treating BPD or licensed to even diagnose. I feel very isolated, with no real support or ways forward for her or us, she blames everything on me and believes I am the cause of her problems. I just don’t understand and it is making me so sick. Thank you ... View more