I married my husband in 2007 and he has two kids with different woman. I should have seen what complicated situation I was getting myself into . Baby mama drama for sure . With one of them we would always pick him up and bring him over the weekends . So after many years unfortunately his mother died . Kid had trouble in the past , his mother would always go out and leave him alone let him do whatever he wanted when we brought him here bc he was 17 in 2017 he sold drugs in high school got caught and well yet again got caught by a cop selling marijuana. It’s just been a roller coaster and a headache. He’s been doing good so far and it’s just he’s now 22 still living with us and I just feel like it’s time for him to move out every night he goes out comes back around three or four in the morning, and sometimes I wake up from the noise. He got into singing and well good for him right at least something good . But it drives me crazy. ! All he does is listen to his music every day even when he showers and also we have one of the biggest problems he is very messy, he has trash in his room, dirty clothes, that literally I can smell it from the living room . I’m unhappy I am Miserable in my own apartment . His father has told him multiple times to be organized but no use . He’s just lazy . He’s been with us since he was 17 now he’s 22 and will turn 23 in October . I mean he does pay rent . Am I being too harsh? ... View more