Hi Everyone New member here after some advice or experiences of those in a similar situation. I am divorced and my 4 kids love with their mum, who moved them 3 hours away. Originally, there was an agreement that I would have them fortnightly, but with working during the week and having to travel so far to pick them up and drop them home, I was left absolutely exhausted and our time together wasn't the quality I would have liked with them. We then agreed visits would be one out of 4 weekends. Now they're all older (18, 15, 13 and 12), and they all have sporting interests. I am so torn. I want to see them and spend time with them, but I don't want them missing out on sport and social activities because that is important for teenagers. But time with their dad is just as important, but I am worried they would resent me for them missing out on sport. So far this year I have only seen them twice (once was over the school holidays for a week). Does anybody share my situation and if so, how do you balance their sport/recreation and visitations? ... View more