My daughter 17 yo has a boyfriend ( same age)behind my back for 3 months (im guessing) now that i found out about it, we had arguments because of so much lying, disrespectful towards me and husband, blaming me for her issues and i also find out they both apparently did this behind parents, means his parents also still dont know till now. Im not allowing to hanging out with her friends or meet him, specially until he tell his parents (but I didn't tell her that my goal is to slow it down, because i found out they already had sex), they basically calling, texting everyday. I'm not sure why the boy refused to tell the parents and very good in hiding it. My daughter invited him to her formal and now i that have his mother contact no. Is it right for me to contact the mother to get to know and I don't want to tell straightaway but maybe just giving some hints that they're dating? Wouldn't the mother deserve know what's going on in his son life? Or should i leave it.. ... View more