Hi I’m desperate for help I have a 17 year old daughter who has always suffered separation anxiety and I thought she might get a little better as she got older but sadly it has gotten a lot worse.she managed to get through half year 10 but the battle was just to hard to even get her to school without her breaking down on the way to school or her ringing me from the toilet at school begging me to come and pick her up which I always did and with a lot of meetings ect with the school and tafe I got her enrolled into animal studies as that was her passion and everything was going great till a week before she was to start and without me sitting in my car in the car park while she was there she would have panic attacks and get sick in the stomach ect I explained I can’t sit in the car for 5 hrs a day I was hoping to return to work which I had to give up many good jobs Because I was constantly getting called into the school to pick her up so she then wanted me to sit at the back of the class at tafe because she just needs to have me in eye shot because I’m her mind if I die she will be abandoned on her own so the tafe said it wasn’t allowed so that was the end of that we have tried seeking different help through out the years but nothing has stuck and has not worked out ect not that the mental health is fantastic anyway.I want my daughter to be able to be comfortable enough for me to be able to go to the shop Not even 5 mins away but it’s just getting worse and I just don’t know what to do anymore I worry for her future I constantly worry but in her mind she is convinced something bad will happen to me if she is not with me.it’s getting that bad now if I’m hanging clothes on the line I have to tell her I’m just going to the clothes line then I get a thousand questions like mum is that the only place u are going ect and if she needs to have a shower while I’m downstairs cleaning I have to come upstairs till she has a shower incase I die downstairs and she doesn’t know because of the running water noise.We use to go to the city to attend the comic cons ect and stay overnight in hotel but we have not done that for 2 yrs and once again it’s because if something happens to me she will be stuck with no one im a single mum she has no contact with her father because she doesn’t trust him or even want to talk to him and sadly he gave up on her many years ago. She want stay at home with her sister who is 27 because she trusts no one about 4 yrs ago she was ok if my mum stayed with her overnight if I did nightshift but she would not sleep till I got home and in the end a few years ago she said no I can’t stay with just nan here so I worked on odd days she managed to stay at school for the whole day. I had to give my job a yr and half ago but I’m desperately needing to return to work as my savings are just about gone please anyone help me help my daughter I fear for her future as in may she will be 18 and we have had the talk about medication but she said no to that I also might add it was not till the day she turned 15 that she said I think I will try to sleep in my own bed now and thank goodness it’s be like that ever since but I just don’t know what to do and the frustrating part is no one understands and constantly tell me just leave her go to work she will get over it but I try to explain it doesn’t work like that please someone help me with ideas its not healthy for her but now I just don’t know anymore and what makes it harder my own mental health is not good and has not been for a long time due to many many issues. Thankyou kindly ... View more