So my 17 year old has mental health that's deteriorated over few years. Occasional self harm, suicidal thoughts no plan. Offered options over the years for support which they tried and stopped. She has this year got involved with psychologist, MH service and supports at school year 11. However tells each of them different things. Now she has been offered residential support for 2 weeks which she wants as she now says she does not want to live with us, says its our fault, wants to leave and not return, stay with friends. Hates us, her siblings and that none of us care because we have not helped her. The residential place is for 2 weeks, she has to have goals - none given or does not remember, will not be going to school but can have friends over if she wants and phone. What can I do.....she has a part time job she enjoys, always chatting online with her friends , often making things, arts and crafts, Sorry lots of waffle ... View more