Hey @milli95  Welcome to the ReachOut community.   Thank you for sharing what you're going through right now, I can hear how worried you are about your daughter and her privacy. It's understandable being concerned about her boyfriend sharing this information, and the impact it could have on her. From what you've described, it sounds like you could really use some support navigating this situation. I want to acknowledge your courage and care for your daughter in trying to figure out how to approach her about this. You mentioned your daughter recently disclosed that her and her boyfriend have started having sex, and I wanted to share this article on talking to your teenager about sex and this one on preparing for your teenager being sexually active. Those articles might be able to give you some information on how you might talk about sex with your daughter, I thought I'd share this video which talks through effectively communicating with your teen too. I understand that the boyfriend sharing that they are having sex is worrying, I was wondering if you think it might be worth asking your daughter if she consented to her boyfriend sharing that? I know that this is a really anxious time for you. It's important to consider your wellbeing and make sure you're looking after yourself during this difficult time. Do you have any self-care strategies or supports you rely on when you're facing stressful situations like this one? Looking forward to your response! ... View more