Hey all - I’m lost and looking for some advice. My 5 year old son started school this year, had a good two days but following this - has a had a series of meltdowns (throwing items, screaming, trying to hurt others etc.). No issues during transition sessions. When speaking with him about why he gets upset , he speaks about wanting to go first, not wanting to do what the teacher says. He tells me that the classroom is too noisy. We’ve offered ear muffs, says he worries what the other kids will think. He has a safe space to go to when he is dysregulated but then worries about missing out on things in the classroom. Because he’s hit another student, he was suspended one day last week and now two days this week. Understanding student safety is important but I’m struggling with how a 5 year old understands the purpose of a suspension. We’ve explained it to him. Like when he gets upset I think he’s unable to manage his emotions and is physically acting out. I don’t think he actually wants to hurt anyone but is struggling to manage and express emotions. We have an appointment to have his ears checked and an appointment with a psychologist booked. Any other advice or suggestions. We are really struggling about what to do and worry that the school will eventually just say it’s too hard. ... View more