my son is struggling with confidence at college he has always been quiet and shy and I thought he would get more confident the older he got but not the case. At home he is chatty funny and never shy around anyone he knows but when outside the home and family he switches and seems to be unable to communicate and make friends he has never suffered from bullying of any kind I also worry that he makes things up he will go out saying hes heading out with friends but in fact Ive seen him on his own when Ive said wheres you mates he just says theyve gone home. he is now 17 and hes at full time college Ive had his tutor ask if theres any problems as he is so quiet and he has said there isnt any to myself and the tutor, I really could do with some help as he doesnt seem to think theres a problem but hes unable to get a part time job as when he goes for interviews hes closed off and quiet and then doesnt get it which then knocks him even more   ... View more