Thank you all ladies for your concerned replies and kindness as well as very appreciated advices My daughter still angry at me and not much contact has been exchanged I do have a friend i can talk to about my problems and she has been a great help Just worried the more time apart will only harden her heart and make it difficult to make up and start all over again. She keeps telling her older sister that she needs time and space Waiting and hoping that she will understand my feelings and realise that she means the world to me
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My husband whom I separated from recently because of his history of flirting with any female he meets regardless of my feelings and calling me mad when confronted decided to flirt with our 16 year old daughter's best friend while staying at a beach cabin during school holiday. Having endured years of his selfish behavior and continuous fighting in front of our daughter seeing her girlfriend responding to his advances was the last straw. I approached her nicely and asked why a young beautiful girl like her will respond to an ageing man like her bestfriend dad. She denied and went crying to my daughter who became angry with me and never forgave me ever since. I left my husband after this episode and left the state but my daughter stayed home with him. I tried reaching out and explaining why I did what I did and I also apologized to her and her friends family to no avail. My husband is taking advantage of this situation and spoinling her rotten. She doesn't answer my calls nor my messages or emails. It's breaking my heart and don't know what to do. I asked my ex to be to get her counselling to talk about the issue but he refused saying I am the problem and she will be fine. My husband and I haven't been happy for a long long time he was never an honest man and became worse after physical problems. I worry about my little girl so much and miss her terribly and feel guilty and helpless.
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