It is incredibly hard to put up with abusive kids. I have been through it all up until 2-3 years ago. My child who is now mid teen has settled but still has his moments with school refusal. He is unmotivated when it comes to school work. As easy as it might seem to wash my hands and say you are old enough to apply yourself I can't let him fail. I can't walk away from what is my responsibility as a parent. I feel that I need to keep going for his sake. Many a tear has been shed, a wall punched, a name called, property damaged, you name it. Up until he is an adult I have to give my all. God help me. I hope that you have the support that you need. ... View more