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Just-WantToHelp · ‎11-06-2018

Thank you so much for your kind words and replying to my message @sunflowermom. I will stand by him at all costs but I am also very confused by it and am trying all I can to understand it all better to know where his head is. I will take your advice and give him the months he needs to process it and hopefully by then both him and her are a bit stronger and we can slowly get back to what we were. I really helps me to know what you felt so I can put it into perspective.

Just-WantToHelp · ‎11-06-2018

Thank you so much for your kind words and replying to my message @Jess1-RO. I am relieved that pulling away from me is normal and the way he is processing it. This happened only 2 weeks ago and its still very fresh. I am really not sure of the stages they will go through? I will continue to give him the space he needs but be around in the background if he needs to talk. I send him a message every second day just saying that I am thinking of them all and here if he needs me. I also drop off lunch at his work once a week, just to make sure he is eating. I feel its a personal family issue that they need to deal with and I feel its not right to be in their space at this time.

Just-WantToHelp · ‎11-05-2018

Thank you so much. Yes she is receiving the care and medication she needs. Her Dad is very protective and has done all he can do to ensure her wellbeing. Its taken its toll on him which I understand. I just want to know what I can do to make him feel better without getting in the way of their personal family time. His daughter told him not to tell me so I don't want to betray anyone's trust. I just want to make everyone happy again. I am scared I push him further away if I keep pushing.

Just-WantToHelp · ‎11-05-2018

I came across this site whilst looking for answers. I will keep it brief but some help and guidance would really go along way.. I have 2 children of my own however this is not about my kids. My boyfriend and I have been together a while and he has 2 teenage daughters. We do not live together. Everything was going fine until 2 weeks ago when his eldest daughter, 15 years old, tried to commit suicide. He has sole custody of both girls. I can very much understand the trauma that this creates for the girls. My boyfriend now is experiencing extreme guilt and has shut me off to spend time with the girls. Now while I understand the reason for it and they need him 100%, he is very sad and withdrawn and I just want to make them all feel better. I want to look after him so he can look after his girls. I don't know if anything I do will make things better or worse. I really just want to hear from others who have been through it that it will get better and what my place in all this should be.

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