My teen daughter is 15 almost 16. She is shy yet friendly, a good student, has a good head on her shoulders, responsible, always stays at home and rarely goes to hang out with peers,and always has been against any kind of drugs or alcohol after seeing what we went thru with her older brother. However, a few months ago while hanging out with a friend she tried marijuana for the first time. We were absolutely shocked and she was so upset with herself for four against what she believed in. Last week we had suspicions that she might be doing it more often. She swears no, but again we have been down this road with her brother so we are well aware of the signs. My question is this, if we make her take a drug test and she really isn’t doing anything how is that going to affect our relationship and if she is what do we do next? We are very close and I am afraid how this will affect our relationship.
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