Hi Fullhouse, your post shows that you are doing a great job because of all the things you are able to discuss with your 2 boys . If your son says all his friends can bring home random girls it is probably best not to argue that point. Because its actually not relevant to your discussion about your rules.Perhaps if you tell him for 18 years you have made it all about him, his well being and his safety and his happiness. Now that he is an adult he needs to see that sometimes it is allowed to be about you. Even if he doesnt agree or like it. It is your house and your safety and your peace of mind here. I think he has been very fortunate to have such an open minded parent , all you are asking for is a little respect in regards to an issue that you feel is important to you regardless of what other parents may or may not be doing. In my day a lot of issues were hidden or swept under the carpet as in, cant see it it's not happening .Well done you for being so open with your boys. I hope he can give you the respect you deserve for that openess by agreeing to your rules .
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