Hi im in a similar situation my daughters been seeing this guy we have been trying to meet up with him properly every time we arrange something it all goes wrong he has mental health issues he was treated awful by his family when he was little so has a knock on effect to how he feels towards us he dosent like himself very much so he is very negative my daughter is helping him get the help he needs he is seeing a therapist cbt and taking medication its early days still but im finding it very hard to deal with as a parent and seing my daughter having to deal with this im giving her support even though i dont think she should not be with him but i have to try to help him and her and hope he can then build a proper relationship with us we have had quite a few set backs and i feel angry but i need to try to help the more i tell her to leave him the more shes with him she has to see for herself thats things are not right but at the same time you dont want to lose your daughter i would encourage him to seek proffesinal help as there could be an underlying problem as to why he behaves the way he does let me know how you get on i will let you know aswell its hard as a parent ... View more