I read your post. And I feel Like you just wrote that for me . My daughter is a follower. She has a big personality but always seems to follow. She watches all those you tube videos and is big into musical Theatre and dance and she gets sucked in . She made a friend about2 years ago who has come out as bi and has bad anxiety . And then the next thing I know the girl I used to know - the fearless - big personality - always wanting to be the centre of attention is afraid what people will Think of her - and is telling me she has anxiety , she doesn’t want to dance anymore all her interested changed - all the things she loved she doesn’t anymore Because this girl Doesn’t like it ... all her goals she has worked towards all the things she has wanted and talked about since she was 8 ( she is 13) are no longer important . I know some of this comes with age - but I also no how easily influenced my daughter is. Now her friend is introducing her to her friends ( they go to different schools) And all her pan and bi friends and now all of a sudden my daughter has come out Pan. I told her I just want her to be Happy. And I love her no matter what’s but I don’t buy it! And I sound like a bad guy if I say anything . But I truly believe that it’s “ trendy” right now in that age group. I believe some kids truly are . And that’s great but I also think that right now it’s trendy to be a part of that group. ... View more