Hi everyone. Not even sure if this is the right place for me as my troubled son is 20 years old, not a teenager.  He is taking out his problems on our 17 year old. 1. My boys are 20 and 17. Sorry, can't remember anything recently that they have done which has made me laugh. Life has been hard.  I have smiled a bit when they have been playing music together (piano and viola) but these moments are few and far between. 2. Reducing stress? No idea how, but I still enjoy reading a great and absorbing book. 3. Trying to find support - so many sites and groups seem to be for parents of children, not 20 year olds. 4. Buy a bigger fridge - you won't believe how much teenage boys eat. 5. More time to take the dog for walks.   ... View more