Hi, I am an 18 year old who pretty much has to raise my brothers by myself. My mum works night shifts so i have to make sure that, every night, my brothers have dinner, do their homework, shower etc. as well as making sure i do well in school, do my own homework and have a decent social life. My brothers are aged 13 and 10 and they constantly fight with each other. every time i tell them off, its like they forget everything i say about an hour after. They've seen me have mental breakdowns and cry my eyes out for hours and they still never seem to care.    i never expected to live like this, to raise two boys, i cant even get a job. i dont know what to do and they driving me crazy because they never listen to me. i make them dinner every night, i clean u after them, i try to help them resolve their fights, but they still dont take me seriously.   can any experienced parents give me any advice?  ... View more