I am new to this and not sure if there and things that I am allowed to talk about here. So I’ve been in a relationship for 8 years now and engaged for nearly a year. Stepson of 12 years old who live mainly with his mother but whenever he comes over he thinks it’s like his holiday house. Food had to be brought in front of him, he does nothing and gives me the attitude whenever I ask him to clean his room or tidy up. But whenever his father asks him to do it there is no fuss. I have been trying my best to connect with him but nothing apart from him having a whinge to his mother about me telling him off for the things that he is not meant to do. I hate to say this but I absolutely hate it when he comes over. I get annoyed when he is here because I don’t feel comfortable in my own house. I told my fiancé about it yesterday and his answer was “you’re gonna be his stepmother and you can’t just give up”. My fiancé wants all 3 of us going away at Christmas time and trust me I so do not want to. Why? Because whenever we are together I feel like I’m being put on the side. He is in constant need of attention. He is 12 turning 13 soon and still needs someone to put him in bed. Since we’ve been engaged, the evil mother has been telling my fiancé that the day that we will have a baby, everything will change and we will reject the child which is not true but she is trust me looking at anything to put me down. Anyway I don’t know what to do, I just can’t stand him anymore. Judge me if you want but I had to vent. ... View more