Hi @mumworried, thank you so much for sharing. Unfortunately, it is really difficult for us to comment on whether this behaviour is grooming. The main point is that this is eliciting discomfort in both you and your son. Whether or not this is the intention of your brother, it is making you and your son feel worried and unsettled. Would you feel comfortable talking to your brother about the tone of his messages and the language that he uses?
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