I am not sure if I am asking this question in the right place but here goes. I really need help guys. My fiance that I have been with for around a year now has a 9 year old daughter that absolutely adores and thinks the world of me. That's not my concern though. My concern with it is that she almost near obssesses over wanting to spend time with me. To the point of constantly bugging her mom (my fiance) asking her when am I going to be home from work. I enjoy that she doesn't dislike me but she always wants to spend almost every moment I have at home with me. She is my little shadow. That's cute and all but I am worried about how much actual physical contact she tries to have with me. Wanting to sit on my lap, wanting piggy back rides and so on. I could be wrong because I have never been in this situation but it just seems like its just way too much and possibly not healthy. I don't know if it's completely inoscent or if it's maybe more. I know that she enjoys that I give her attention but I am afraid its borderline inappropriate for her to want constant attention and even more then that, physical contact. Please help me understand what is going on and what I should do about it
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