I left the house because I didn’t see another way. He said he’d do anything for us so I suggested therapy and after two sessions he said he couldn’t do it anymore. We kept trying but the same issues kept on showing up. All I learnt from this is that it’s nearly impossible to have a relationship let alone a marriage with someone that can’t welcome my children with a genuine intention of building a relationship with them. Whoever loves me should at least care for those I love... doesn’t have to love them but definitely can’t dislike them. today I asked him to give me time and space so we both can evaluate our situation. In my heart I don’t think I’m the right person for him...and even though I love him dearly I’m letting go of everything I dreamt of. Extremely sad... I wish you the best... only you know what your situation is and what’s the best for you and your family. ... View more

Thank you Taylor, I really appreciate your response.I suggested couples therapy but my husband says they’re not his children and he shouldn’t go to therapy for this. He says therapy is something, we (my children and I should take). I’ll check parentline soon. Thanks again. ... View more