We have recently discovered that our19 year old son has been paying to watch porn for over a year, it was discovered by my husband when he asked about his savings account.  He works full time after dropping out of uni & waiting to get in the army, he has had 3 serious girlfriends (including the current one) including while this has been going on.  He says he doesn’t know how it started to get so out of control, it was just teenage curiosity- he has spent over $10,000 in the last year and we have no idea what to do. On the outside he’s a good, loving boy who is close to his family but this has torn us apart and my husband & I are blaming each other for this, while trying to protect our 16 year old daughter from it all. ... View more