I don't know what to do either. I'm in the same situation. My daughters boyfriend isn't just emotionally abusive but he's physically abusive as well. She called me this morning, crying, because he left her. I spoke with her for an hour and he showed up at her apartment. He lives down the hall from her so he wasn't far. He started screaming at me for supporting her and he said I look at her as though she can do no wrong. Of course I know she makes mistakes and isn't perfect but to me, she's my baby and I will always support her and her decisions. I have actually told her to leave him though. She knows how I feel about him but I have given him chance after chance after his bs apologies and tears. He's called me a few times, crying about how bad his life was growing up etc. And I felt bad for him but not bad enough to accept that he's the one for my baby girl. She's takes all the blame and he tears her to shreds. She's a shell of a person she once was. She was serving the Lord and was so happy. Now that he's in her life, she gets abused and ridiculed and she apologizes for HIS actions!!! This morning he told me to go eff myself and I hung up on him. She may tolerate that treatment from him but I certainly won't. I don't know what to do. How can I make her see that she needs to leave him? Help!!
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