This is my first time on such a forum and I feel your pain. My journey with my youngest daughter started when she was 13 , she is now 22. I totally get how soul destroying it is to have a child with borderline. You would think after all those years I could pass on some great advice, sorry I can’t . My daughter is currently not talking to me or her sisters. After a failed attempt at doing our best to support her she thinks we are trying to run her life. She as a teenager had a really bad experience with mis diagnosis and medication that turned her into a zombie so she refuses to seek medical help of any kind. She self medicates with drugs , which I believe only heightens her triggers. She is very spiritual and loves tarot cards and alternate options and I’ve supported this as it seemed to give her what she needed. She is a mother of a 3 yr old daughter her ex partner is toxic as are his whole family , they are narcissistic bullies. My daughter has constantly blamed myself and her stepfather for everything that is wrong in her life, we are **bleep** parents and our home, her hone has a negative energy she can not be around. I’m broken and unable to see a way forward , l love my daughter with every fibre of my being and have made excuses for her over the years, gone into impressive debt to try and get her help only to have it thrown in my face and told I don’t hear her truth that I’ve made her this way by not understanding . Ji wish you a smoother journey than myself as I’m now at my wits end and feeling I must just back away fit my own health both mentally and physically and THAT breaks me ... View more