Thank you so much for writing and caring, things are getting better and she is now working 2 jobs getting ready to start college and things are coming full circle regarding her ex boyfriend not sure where it's all gonna lead only time will tell I am doing much better with it all and have healed . Thank you for caring so much. ... View more

Wow ..it does sound very similar...well it's been a year now my daughter has been broke up and it has come full circle basically at their graduation We saw him he hugged me and took pictures with Haylee I told him I had no hard feelings towards him and wished him well in his life we invited him to my daughter grad party but he was having his the same day so him and his family could not make it well during these months that pasted by my daughter seen him at parties by himself he broke up with that girl and has asked my daughter to get back with him atleast 3 times now but she knows he really hasn't matured to much I think she is waiting for him to just show her how he is maturing action and treatment speak louder than words do or she is trying to move on with her life I know she still loves him she did start dating a boy who was her bestie but 1 month into that he kissed another girl and is now trying to work his way back into boyfriend status again she doesn't trust him now . And I really don't care for this boy like I did with Dylan, Al's Dylan and his step mom and brothers all cam over to deliver a grad card to Haylee and stayed and talked with us for a few hours my daughter had to go to work ,she left they stayed and his step mom asked me how Haylee was doing I said good she wanted me to know that Dylan had shared with her that he still was in love with Haylee and wanted to be a part of her life even if it was good friends he said no one ever saw him as a good kid except us and especially me then Dylan came in and saw we were talking about it he said look I really miss her and you I really just want to be in her life I said talk with her like you use to whatever you do don't ignore her show her she matters I know she still has feelings for you And as for me I am always here for you either way he was like I am running out of excuses to come over ..I said you need no excuses to come over just show up here . His step mom and I really want them back together that's when they both were truly happy but Haylee has this other boy competing for her attention all the time!!! So who knows what will happen what I did was put both Haylee and Dylan in pink bubbles in my head and let God and the universe do their magic I did talk with my daughter after her and Dylan broke up she knows I still love Dylan as one of my own kids so my advice is pray and give it to God and the universe its beyond our control and my hurt has healed up especially after Dylan came over with his step mom . Very healing and I know for a fact we had a great impact on this kids life weather they get back together or not I just keep giving it to God . I will pray for you to have more peace with it ..it is a process for sure ... View more

Wow,this was very similar to what happened with my daughter and her ex boyfriend he too stayed at our house all day and would leave at like 2am but he didn't have his license yet but my daughter did and would be taken him home and picking him up he too had a bad home life he would always ask if he could just live here because I was more like his mom than his mom he has bad depression and anxiety .. they broke up the first my daughter broke it off and they had no contact for 2 months but 2 months later here he comes they get back together then 3 months later he breaks up with her then dates a girl who he dated in middle school who tried to get involved in their relationship before drama is all I am going to say then 2 months later he message my daughter and ask to meet her so they meet up he tells her he knows what they have is love and that he has nothing with this girl because he wants to be with my daughter my daughter said look I don't think it's a good idea for us to do that .. he tells her ok but I want you to know it's real what we have and you never know what can happen in the future . Well he tells her let's keep in touch I still want to talk with you well a week later he blocks her on everything is back with this girl then breaks up with her and adds my daughter on snap again ... during ththis my daughter finds out 2 of her friends aren't really friends at all and started drama do now the people she thought she could trust she can't I feel bad for her and am thinking of reaching out to her ex boyfriend to tell him that if he cared for her at all she could really use a friend right now ! But not sure I too miss this kid so much and worry about him with his awful home life ... View more