Hi Everyone, I'm very concerned about my 21 year old son.. He has been self harming on and off for few years, however its got bad in last 6 months. We've been to doctors , been on Medication, Made Appointments with Phycologists and a Referral to see a Physciatrist (well known top of his feild) as also wanted to rule out Bipolar or BPD and when it came to the day he Wouldn't go.. I Begged him, but No , no one can help him, he will fix it himself etcetc.. He has now in last week gone of Medication, and he tells me hasn't self-harmed but its hard to believe as find towels with blood on them etc.. We are a close family , but he just in his room ,playing Xbox , watching TV, doesn't work , has no motivation for anything, has a supportive girlfriend also ... I find this frustrating as I feel he doesn't help himself, and ill be honest I feel like he plays on it.. please don't judge me on that comment, but we do as somedays he is up and about, almost feel like he doesn't want to work also.. His dad whom I separated from.before he and his twin sister where born has Bipolar also. He doesn't have the best relationship with him either.. Has anyone here also been or going through this. Suggestions of support organisations, group sessions etc.  Thanks ... View more