I have not seen him since he left. He has only talked to me a couple of times on the phone just to tell me he does not want anything to do with me. Before we made the decision for him to go to with his father which is in California and we are in Florida, I told him if he did not stop abusing me that I would call the police. That is why I believe he agreed to go to his father. His father paid for him to come to Florida and stay with some friends and he never came to see his mother or me. His father says there is nothing he can do about that. He said his son deserves to see his friends. I do have the support of a sister and friends but I can't understand why he is acting this way. I just want him to get help but his father does not believe there is a problem but his father did admit he has an anger issues but refuses to get him help. If he stayed with us he would have caused me to have a heart attack. It was not helping my daughter with all of his yelling etc. My daughter is doing so much better since he is not here. It would not hurt so bad if he was getting the help he needs. I could live with the fact of never hearing from his again as long hat he got help and deals with the issues he apparently has .
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My daughter and two Grandchildren moved in with me about 13 years ago. My daughter is bipolar and my other daughter and myself were a big force in raising her two children. My grandson started lying to me and leaving the house when we were all asleep. I found out he was smoking pot and he confessed to it. He started where he would get into my face and yell at me. Once he pushed me and I hit my head on the wall and fell down. He would not do school work and would get so angry that he punched two holes in my walls. He recently went to live with he father as I have a bad heart and could not handle it any longer. He is doing well at his Fathers and his Father does not believe me that he was abusive. My daughter and I were hoping he would get him into counseling which we could not. Now my grandson is telling everyone that I kicked him out and I did not . We all discussed it and I thought his Father could help him. My grandson does not want anything to do with me and I cry all of the time over this. My daughter and I thought we were doing what was right because we thought he might need to spend time with his Father and he could help him which we could not. He is telling his Mother he never loved her and he was just pretending he did. I need to stop crying as when I do I feel the pressure in my chest and feel this is killing me. It hurts so much that my grandson was abusing me and yet I still want to talk to him and he does not want to have anything to do with me.
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