Hi, I'm Charlotte.  I've got three children; a 14yr old son and 12yr old twins (boy/girl).  My husband and I are originally from the UK and we don't have any family over here and very little support.  My husband works long hours and I'm struggling to manage the kids on my own.  My eldest son is not at all interested in school and although he's very capable he doesn't bother at all and is failing in most subjects and isn't worried by this (or at least on the outside doesn't seem worried).  He would far rather spend his entire time on a computer or in front of some type of screen.  Earlier this year we had very serious concerns about a potential addiction to the PlayStation and sought some outside help and got rid of it completely, but he'd rather be on a screen than do anything else, even sport!  None of the kids get along, they all scream and shout and swear at each other.  My younger son is ever so slightly on the spectrum which means he has some 'interesting' traits that add a whole new dimension.  It's basically no fun at all being my kids mother and I constantly ask myself where am I going wrong? ... View more