My 14 year old daughter has been seeing a therapist for well over 2 years now. At first it was to deal with bullying at her school and social anxiety because of it. When the pandemic hit she was alone in her room for hours and became depressed she expressed to a friend that she felt suicidal. That friend told her mom and the mom told us. At this point we made an emergency appt with her therapist. It was then determined that she was low risk and we did begin medication. The meds seemed to have helped. She went back to school enjoyed going let new friends and even a boyfriend. Things seem to be going great. A week ago she was not herself she was down I can always tell when she’s off. She said she was fine, didn’t want to talk about it, she could handle it herself. She gets even more upset when I continue to question her. Fast forward to the other day and I went through her phone. I found unpublished tik tok videos saying things like she did it, she fooled us all she convinced us all she’s fine. She states I win, I won. Next video is about saying you want to Kermit (slang for commit) but what is stopping you. Well her bf the love of her life. I have not addressed this as she is vacationing with her grandparents right now. I have reached out to her therapist and told her about the videos. We have an appt when my daughter gets back. The problem is if I tell her I saw her phone my husband feels she will be very upset and withdraw more. We also feel either way she will Just say she is fine she will say she gets stressed and then gets over it. But why the lying saying your fine, why the suicide fleeting thoughts. Should we confront her about the unpublished videos? Tell her I went through her phone? Risk her being more upset… ... View more