I agree with previous replies that suggest this behavior has a root cause that goes beyond a simple refusal.  Most kids don't exactly jump out of bed to attend school, but when they are there, they are fine.  Your description sounds a lot more complex than that, especially as this behavior sounds like it extends into his social life, keeping him from wanting to converse with family members as well.    A few questions spring to mind:   Have you had an opportunity to meet with your son's teachers and discuss their observations around his participation prior to refusing school?     How long has this refusal been going on for and have you noticed other changes in his health or habits, however minor?     You have done the right thing by chatting to your GP and seeking a referral to someone that may be more qualified than a counsellor.       ... View more