I'm not sure where you are but I know exactly what your talking about from my hubby and both of our granddaughter parents. She lives with us. I found a program that's free through a grant that changes places if care with it once in a great while(we had family dynamics) that provides free therapy, groups camps etc for kids that need it and with our groups that we had that finally came next they have another part of their business too that isn't just therapy but they have with parents with they have we had one on one cat therapy or counseling for me and my granddaughter and how communicate better her Dad wouldn't do it unfortunately but they have so many things they're so helpful and it's called the "CHATT" grant..idk here better info. California Office of Emergency Services to bring the Child Abuse Treatment (CHAT) grant program to Shasta County and combat the effects of trauma in youth. By providing free therapeutic counseling and advocacy to child, teens, and their non-offending family members who are victims of abuse, trauma, or neglect, this program aims to reach potential clients who have not traditionally been able to receive services due to a lack of insurance funding, transportation, or an inability to find a therapist. ... View more