Hi there - I don't have any advice but just wanted to let you know I completely understand how you feel. I recently discovered my daughter has been telling me what I wanted to hear and sneaking around, even gloating to her friends on how she gets away with everything. They even say they learn from her as she is the master of sneaking around and that we are strict parents, which I don't believe we are at all, we just have standards. As far as I know she isn't in or been in any sexual activity but the feeling it leaves you with is extremely unpleasant and makes you question absolutely everything.    I feel for you - It's hard. Please know you are not the only one. ... View more