I know that this is old, but let  her go!  My 17 year old daughter did the same thing and moved out as soon as she turned 18. . Fast forward 1 year later, her attitude has completely changed. No longer does she harbor the nasty attitude we could barely stand. We didn’t help her, not one cent during that year. Only once we realized that she had  truly changed did we start to provide a little financial help. But this experience was invaluable for her. She finally realized that there are rules everywhere and how good she had it at home.  not trying to be cruel, but with the pandemic raging, she contracted Covid about a month ago. Even though she is fully vaccinated, she is still sick, not able to eat much. We pay her medical bills, bought her a. car and help her pay her insurance until she graduates from school. But she can’t stand her roommates. My stance is, she found a way out of our home, so she can find a way out of the situation she created. If I were to rush in and save her, she would r learn a thing. Not to mention, we have a young son to care for and have underlying health conditions that makes getting covid a no go.I love her, but she needs to be an adult now and get it together. Only then will she learn and get herself straight. We as parents are not here for long with our children. We have 18 years * really much less than 18: more like 10) to drill into them how to live. At some point, they have to learn. God could take me away tomorrow, but she needs to learn that all you really have in life is yourself. You are born alone and will die alone, so love yourself.  ... View more