Recently I was able to locate the court appointed psychologist that wrote the report to my judge at the time in my custody case that caused the 8 years of separation which I later learned was the start of the parental alienation for my children and I . I feel this woman was not a bad person for misunderstanding and overlooking the abuse going on in my case rather she was not educated . I decided to draft up this email I included below and I sent it over to her . I am sharing it with you all because I think education is critical in these PA cases and unless we can find reasonable and constructive ways to get parental alienation recognized it will never stop . I hope you find this information helpful ❤️ it’s a long read but very useful and important! Here is what I sent over to the court appointed psychologistthst caused parental alienation in my case and caused an 8 year separation and no contact between myself and my two boys ; “Dear - I hope this email finds you well. Years ago you were involved in a court case that removed both my children from my custody . I am only sending you this information because what happened to me and my children in that case caused unrepairable damage to my children and myself . To date the separation that was created by the court after your review of our case and the submission of the report you wrote after evaluating our case - caused so intense trauma that both myself and my children have become disabled permanently with complex ptsd . I only send this to educate you as I truly believe you did not recognize what what really going on in this case and while I was being gas lit from domestic violence as well as beat up and the children abused mentally and physically by their their father somehow you were unaware of the abuse taking place and you got it exactly backwards and blamed me as the person at fault . Because of how you wrote the report tonthe court the judges ruling literally caused unrepairable harm and disabled myself and my children . To date all 3 of us ( my two boys and myself) have been in trauma based treatments and suffer complex ptsd over the separation. This case involved severe domestic violence and parental alienation. Here is an article I think may help you understand what happened so this hopefully never happens to another innocent parent or child . Again I only send this so that it prevents this happening to anyone else . Please know I only am contacting you to help educate you on how powerful a person like you can be in changing the trajectory of a innocent parent and child’s life . I am sure you are a good person just a person who did not understand the magnitude of abuse going on and you simply made an innocent mistake . Unfortunately this mistake caused extreme harm to myself and children and I pray it never happens to another innocent parent or child. Lastly, Today I work directly with DCS and foster kids who have been abused and I work with the courts through special child advocates in the Supreme Court to ensure that when domestic violence , child abuse and parental alienation are involved the child and abused parent are protected . I was fortunate to be able to return to work after 8 years of experiencing ptsd from the separation so severe I could barely leave my home as I was crippled with fear and trauma over no contact with my children . My younger son took the worst hit and is now SMI and diagnosed with a permanent disability from trauma and the separation from me as well as from child abuse . I have made it my mission in life to help make constructive change in the family courts through advocacy and education. I wish you much luck and hopefully this information will help save someone from experiencing what my family experienced. Sincerely, ... View more