So glad I found this page. I felt like I must have been the only person stupid enough to let her daughter date from 14 to 16 and take the boy in like a son. I was regretting everything I did and kind of still am. I knew the relationship wasn't right but he seemed like a nice kid and who was I to say break up with him. My daughter was struggling with school and some other friend issues apparently and got into an fight with her boyfriend. She threatened to harm herself and he reached out to me. I reported back to him that she was overwhelmed and he insisted it related to him so I thought maybe she was lying and it scared me. I mentioned something about maybe the relationship was more toxic than I thought. Mind you all of this happened at 11 pm or later at night and I am not good at night. The next day I told him simply that there may be a disconnect between them and they may want different things. My daughter needs quality time. This kid was known to exclude her from things and it bugged her which was the reason for 90% of their fights (maybe 10 in 20 months time frame). So sorry to ramble but I feel like I caused the breakup. He broke up with her via text the day after the harm situation occurred. I am scared she might blame me, scared I caused it by letting them get close and stay together so long and scared she might get really depressed as she was already struggling before this breakup. ... View more