Hi @MTK96559655,
Welcome to the forums!
It sounds like you really care about your son and miss him and how he used to be before his relationship. It seems like this is all quite new and exciting for him, and it’s good to know that his girlfriend is a nice person. Whilst as a parent you can see that things may not be the healthiest for him, I understand your fear of possibly pushing him away.
As your son is growing older and going through different changes and experiences, how are you feeling about it all? He may not always make the best choices for himself, and part of that might be a process of growing up and finding out what’s right for him. It sounds like you love him and will support him if he needed it. Have you discussed this situation with anyone other than your wife?
We hope our community will also discuss their experiences! In the meantime, our website has some articles that may be worth reading here
Whilst you are going through this (and possibly other issues in the future), we hope that you receive adequate emotional support, are there others you can confide in?
We hope that you can still spend some quality time with your son and your family and continue to nurture the relationship whilst he explores his new romantic relationship.
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