My daughter was 14 when I sought medical help for my daughter who was suffering anxiety and a number of the issues that you described of your daughter. Her rocking has always been her soothing action. Today she would not drink orange juice because it had pulp in it and left one piece of chicken because it looked strange. She saw a psychologist who diagnosed her ASD (autism spectrum disorder). Yes I know a label. She has not taken medication but instead with the help of her psychologist has been able to understand why she feels the way she does and strategies to manage her anxiety and how to interact with people and now has friends and maintains friends and accepts what people think about her as she is a little different but there is nothing wrong with that. She is now 18 at uni and has a part time job, goes out occasionally and plays sport. Getting some help to recognise and manage panic attacks and anxiety would be beneficial. ... View more