Thank you for the reply I really appreciate it. She has never been tidy. I think now I’ve had enough of picking up after her. Her room is always a mess. I deal with it by continually asking. Or doing it myself. She may or may not do it. I get fraustrated and we argue. She does not see what the big deal is. I just want us all to do our part. We are about to have a talk. So I just wanted to see what is reasonable expectations? And what should be a consequence? I have thought of charging board. But I don’t see how these habits would change. Any thoughts are greatly appreciated. ... View more

Hi Everyone, Glad I found this forum. I to have a 18 year old daughter. Who does not tidy her room. Leaves the bathroom untidy. Leaves her glass’s, plates etc all around the house. And doesn’t get out of bed til 10. She will be starting Uni soon and she does have a casual job. I’m asking what are reasonable expectations of a 18 year old? My husband and I are are very fraustrated with the situation. Thanks so much. ... View more