I don’t know how I should feel, some help please. My child has wanted a nose piercing, for over a year. Went to vist her father and come back with a nose piercing. She is 12. Even though I have previously spoke with the both of them I would like to wait till she is 14yo to get her nose done. We have spoken about it several times. I’m very disappointed and feel she has gone behind my back. I’m not against piercings but had concerns regarding keeping hygiene up to make sure it doesn’t get infected. She can’t wear earrings because they keep getting infected. What type of repercussions for this should take place? I don’t want to feel like she needs to go behind my back, but I want their to be respect in our relationship. ... View more