Well...I don't actually know where to begin, My boyfriend has full custody of his daughter and before I was around they lived in his mum's so she was basically brought up by her nan...I came on to the scene close to her being near to 5. Basically the word no was not a part of my stepdaughters life she was unintentionally being kept a baby, I could go into it more but there is too much... anyways when we moved in together I gave a grace period in the hope that a lot of her behavioural aspects where purely due to upbringing. That has probably contributed to some aspect but I do believe there is something more there primarily possible ADHD. The reason I need advice is coz I asked my fella, her dad, if we could look into getting her assessed and he refused point blank, he doesn't see the point in knowing either way, what he sees as typical kid behaviour I see as something different. ... View more