Hi there, That sounds really tough! It’s really stressful when our teens can’t see that all the decisions they make now will mean they have less choice in the future. I’m a teacher and I’m having a similar issue with our youngest, who’s 16. She has serious health issues last year and at the beginnning of this year, as basically hasn’t attended school regularly since. All I can say is keep trying with Cahms, they also do what they call a Single Session, where you and whoever else is involved in her care sit down together? is there someone else in her life that she looks up to that you could enlist to help her get to a doctor for a referral? An older friend or relative? Our daughter was diagnosed with anxiety and is now on meds, which have helped a bit- still not there yet though. Just a few ideas, but mostly virtual hugs- you’re not alone! X ... View more